Mar. 5th, 2008 @ 11:19 am (no subject)
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Chorus: Yay!

Going abroad on holiday was one of the fun things I wanted to do this year (or, to be fair, last year), and I'm pleased I have: for several years I've never got round to it, having so much excuse to spend time with people nearby.

Chorus: Aw!

But the reason I was in Stockholm specifically was to see [info]livredor as a delayed Cyril and Methodius[1] weekend. We really met at my and her Christmas parties, and had a date at New Year when she was in the country, and exchanged email spiralling out of all control, and are now officially going out.

Chorus: Squee!

[1] Apparently the correct honorific for "Saints" is "Sts." But is that right? Shouldn't it be "St.s"? But that looks completely wrong :)

Chorus: Wuh?

It was obviously a calculated risk visiting someone in an unformed relationship; it could indeed have been awkward if we had felt pressure to get on. But we decided we were objectively optimistic, given how well we hugged both on our coffee date, and electronically, indeed, we were as comfortable hugging in real life.

Chorus: Squee!

So we had a lovely weekend and debating, snuggling and Stockholm, and I don't really have anything more to say in this paragraph, I just wanted to mention again that we officially examined the common relationship paradigms available to us in this culture and decided that "relationship" and "going out" best cover what we agreed we were going.

Chorus: SQUEE!

Chorus: But do we get a link?

Of course. Her post: here
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From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 11:51 am (UTC)
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In retrospect, that would have been a relevant thing to tell people on my postcards, when I was wondering what I could write beyond "Sweden yay! I sent you a postcard!". I completely forgot, (a) forgetting that people wouldn't have known the gossip by Monday, even though it felt very natural by then and (b) knowing that I don't know anyone who would read my postcard before my livejournal.
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From:[info]hilarityallen
Date: March 5th, 2008 12:04 pm (UTC)
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Ss is a perfectly acceptable abbreviation for saints.
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From:[info]miriammoules
Date: March 5th, 2008 01:04 pm (UTC)
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you beat me to it!
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:50 pm (UTC)
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Thank you.

(But look at the shiny relationship! Pay attention to the shiny! :))
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From:[info]livredor
Date: March 8th, 2008 11:13 am (UTC)
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I very much love that your friends respond to the news of a new relationship by debating what is the correct title for more than one saint. *bounce*
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 9th, 2008 12:09 am (UTC)
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:)
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From:[info]ewx
Date: March 5th, 2008 01:08 pm (UTC)
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abbreviate(plural("Saint")) = "Sts." makes perfect sense to me (accepting that there might be other widely accepted abbreviations of it as above). plural(abbreviate("Saint")) seems like an odd way to go about it.
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From:[info]ewx
Date: March 5th, 2008 01:09 pm (UTC)
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PS welcome back.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:53 pm (UTC)
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Thanks! It's all good.

(I assume you mean 'back from Sweden', not 'back from being single' or 'back from thinking about flights' :))
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From:[info]ewx
Date: March 5th, 2008 09:44 pm (UTC)
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Yes, back from Sweden. I'd not modeled singleness in a place-like way but I had noticed that you'd been rather occupied with thinking about flying l-)
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:52 pm (UTC)
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That makes sense. It feels wrong to leave out the middle and put a "." at the end, but that is normal practice, I now recall. But it seems less precise than applying the plural and abbrev functions in a strict order :)
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From:[info]hairyears
Date: March 5th, 2008 01:35 pm (UTC)
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Woot!
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From:[info]midnightmelody
Date: March 5th, 2008 01:35 pm (UTC)
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The honorific as used in Catholic-everything is 'Ss.', as in Ss. Cyril and Methodius. (Wandered over from [info]livredor's post, and saw my favourite festival mentioned and spelling-pedantry all combined.)
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:54 pm (UTC)
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Hi!

And thanks, that makes sense. Although it sounds like a really cool name for a ship. Google turned up 'Sts.' top, that's why I guessed that.
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From:[info]livredor
Date: March 8th, 2008 11:15 am (UTC)
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Yay. I am glad LJ makes it possible to connect you and [info]cartesiandaemon, because you are indeed the person who brought the idea of Cyril and Methodius into my awareness. And therefore made it possible for a Jew and an atheist to have a long, convoluted discussion about exactly which saint's day we should be celebrating.
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From:[info]midnightmelody
Date: March 8th, 2008 05:09 pm (UTC)
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Gosh, that is very gratifying! I figure that all people who have thought about religion at all ought to celebrate two saints who made it easier for people to access theological ideas. Personally, I try to spend at least two hours in a bookshop every 14th Feb. :)
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From:[info]rav_hadassah
Date: March 5th, 2008 01:45 pm (UTC)
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Hi,

I am a friend of Livredor's and happy to hear you guys are an item!

All the best of luck and love!

From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 11:24 pm (UTC)
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Thank you!
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From:[info]robhu
Date: March 5th, 2008 01:55 pm (UTC)
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Unicode: ✓

Footnote in the middle of a page: ✓
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From:[info]simont
Date: March 5th, 2008 03:11 pm (UTC)
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icon++ :-)

(Although, <geek subjects="Tron,polyhedra"> it's listed in your icon list under the title "Bit - no", but the yellow octahedron is the shape the Bit assumes when it says Yes! The No shape is a dark red very spiky stellation of the icosahedron. </geek> )
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From:[info]robhu
Date: March 5th, 2008 10:27 pm (UTC)
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:-)

I was aware of this error, but I haven't corrected it as AFAIK doing so will change all the previous usages of it to my default image. I didn't think anyone would actually check what it was listed under :-)
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 11:30 pm (UTC)
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ROFL. Indeed, lovely icon. An indeterminate fix would be to add a comment to the description saying so, although admittedly that would draw the attention of people who didn't know.
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From:[info]despotliz
Date: March 5th, 2008 02:06 pm (UTC)
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Hooray for everything mentioned above. I can already see that [Unknown LJ tag] must be great because we have a startling number of mutual lj friends, proving once again that either a) the geek world is too small or b) I know too many people.
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From:[info]atreic
Date: March 5th, 2008 02:15 pm (UTC)
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:-D
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From:[info]alextfish
Date: March 5th, 2008 03:38 pm (UTC)
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Awesome and congratulations!

Also, am I the only one confused by "subheadingy"? In what way is she like a subheading?
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From:[info]ilanin
Date: March 5th, 2008 05:26 pm (UTC)
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I considered remarking that I was pretty certain I wouldn't date somebody who wasn't offended by being called subheadingy but that this shouldn't stop anybody else.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:57 pm (UTC)
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:)
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:58 pm (UTC)
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It is true, it is imprecise, she is not like a subheading, but predisposed to use subheadings. (Actually not, but that's what it means.) That should probably go in the FAQ, hold on... :)
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From:[info]ravingglory
Date: March 5th, 2008 05:01 pm (UTC)
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Yay! (not that is news is in anyway unexpected)
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:59 pm (UTC)
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:) Indeed. For the benefit of people who either didn't notice the relationship postings in the welter of others, haven't been recommending me books, or didn't expect the trip to go well, here it is :)
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From:[info]ravingglory
Date: March 6th, 2008 09:19 am (UTC)
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Ok, you are right, just because I expected didn't mean other people on your flist didn't. Anyways I like hearing the new officially.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 6th, 2008 11:44 am (UTC)
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Oh, I wasn't very serious. I mean, I mainly just wanted to make it all official, and post a lot of FAQ :) Anyone who knows the situation well probably did know how it would turn out (we did) :)

But I was half serious, because I bet a lot of people who don't follow the journal closely didn't know that the Christmas squee had actually gone anywhere, if they missed the passing mention of the *reason* for the Stockholm visit :)
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From:[info]ceb
Date: March 5th, 2008 06:17 pm (UTC)
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Aww, congratulations :-)
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 09:00 pm (UTC)
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*hugs* Thank you.
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From:[info]miss_next
Date: March 5th, 2008 08:43 pm (UTC)
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Squee indeed! :-)

I would normally use "SS" for "Saints". Could be the Catholic influence.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 5th, 2008 09:00 pm (UTC)
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*hugs*
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From:[info]redbird
Date: March 6th, 2008 02:03 am (UTC)
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Hello, new sweetie of my friend [info]livredor. Her friendship and mine has been mostly online (there's this ocean in the way), but I have gotten to show her little bits of my city.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date: March 6th, 2008 11:54 am (UTC)
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:) *hugs* Thank you. (I like "New sweetie" more than other things we've been called :))